Let’s talk about J‑Hope, the man who can rap, dance, and now, serve as your dating guru—whether you asked for it or not. On July 16, during his Weverse fan‑call event (officially called CHARM OF HOPE), a brave fan dared to ask the ultimate question: “What kind of men should I avoid dating?” And Hobi, in all his candid glory, dropped this gem: “You should be cautious about all of them.” Rumor has it, pretty sure that’s the punchline to everyone’s ghosting story ever.
And just like any good Hobi moment, it resonated. Fans started calling him the “feminist king” because, let’s be real, he’s the kind of guy who’s not going to sugarcoat your love life. In the middle of beats and banter, he goes full life coach—and the crowd went wild.
But wait, he didn’t stop there. Someone cheekily asked for a kiss via video call and Hobi, in his mid-thirties wisdom, replied with a mix of dignity and humor: “No, no, I’m not going to give a kiss. How could I give a kiss? I’m already in my thirties.” I mean, that is peak Hope—saving the romance, but not that kind of romance.
Also, heartfelt moment alert. A fan who wasn’t Korean, named Jenny, practiced her language skills to express how much Hobi inspires and comforts her—and he responded like the champion human he is: “Thank you, Jenny.” Cue hugs.
By the end of the call, we had everything: comedic clarity, wise dating advice, emotional sincerity, and the world realizing—yet again—that J‑Hope is a stand‑up human, not just an idol.
What’s the takeaway? That behind the highlights and choreo, J‑Hope genuinely cares—about his fans, about relationships, about respect. His advice wasn’t just funny—it was a reminder to trust ourselves, to stay alert, and maybe don’t go diving headfirst into love at first sight.
So yes, we’re shouting about it. No, he didn’t drop a track. He didn’t stage a performance. But he left us with something way more lasting: a heart and head check from someone who’s seen the world and wants us to love smarter—not just harder.
Hobi, you’ve once again made us laugh, nod, and say, “Yes, exactly.” Keep giving us pep talks, keep being real, keep calling out the nonsense. We stan a feminist king, and if that’s not enough of a title for you, what is?
