BTS’s leader Kim Namjoon, better known as RM, has once again proven why he’s the most relatable genius in the music industry. In a recent conversation, he admitted outright that he’s an “attention seeker.” And honestly — good. Imagine being one of the most successful artists alive and not wanting attention? That would just be bad business.
But Namjoon’s words went deeper than a cheeky confession. He also talked about how life, especially in the public eye, can feel like an endless wave of unfair criticism. Think about it: every step he takes, every word he utters, gets dissected, twisted, and judged. It’s enough to make anyone want to disappear, yet he doesn’t. Instead, he leans into honesty, admitting that the criticism hurts but refusing to let it break him.
That’s what sets RM apart. He doesn’t hide behind a glossy façade. He doesn’t pretend to be flawless. He acknowledges the weight of being misunderstood — and still stands tall. And if part of surviving that chaos means seeking attention on his own terms, then that’s not a weakness, it’s power.

Of course, critics love to throw “attention seeker” around as if it’s a scarlet letter. But here’s the irony: people pay attention because he’s worth it. His music, his thoughts, his leadership, his vulnerability — these are things that millions of fans worldwide want to hear. Attention isn’t a flaw when it’s earned. And in RM’s case, it’s beyond earned.
Fans quickly showed their support, proudly echoing his words and flipping the narrative. Because let’s face it: if Namjoon says he wants attention, ARMY will make sure he gets more than enough of it. Not out of pity, but out of respect and admiration for the man who has carried so much and still dares to speak with honesty.
At the end of the day, RM doesn’t need to chase attention. Attention chases him. And the critics? Well, they can keep throwing stones from the sidelines while he continues to shine.
Unfiltered, sharp, and endlessly human — Kim Namjoon proves that being an “attention seeker” is only a problem if you’ve got nothing worth seeking. Clearly, that’s not his issue.